Thursday, March 18, 2010

Wedding Rituals. Rose Ceremony. Not just for Bachelors.

In the Rose Ceremony, the Bride and Groom give each other a rose. Two roses are all that is necessary.

The Rose Ceremony is placed at the end of the ceremony just before being pronounced husband and wife.

In the old language of flowers, a single red rose always meant "I love you". The Rose Ceremony gives recognition to the new and most honorable title of "Husband and Wife".

Traditionally the mothers also give the roses, but others can also.

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Monday, March 8, 2010

Wedding Ceremony Readings. An Excerpt.

Following is an excerpt from "Your Complete Wedding Ceremony E-book" compiled by Jim Albani, Minnesota Wedding Officiant. Share your favorite reading by sending an email to Minnesota Wedding Officiants.com.


Why Marriage?
By Mari Nichols

Because to the depths of me, I long to love one person, With all my heart, my soul, my mind, my body...

Because I need a forever friend to trust with the intimacies of me, Who won't hold them against me, Who loves me when I'm unlikable, Who sees the small child in me, and Who looks for the divine potential of me...

Because I need to cuddle in the warmth of the night With someone who thanks God for me, With someone I feel blessed to hold...

Because marriage means opportunity To grow in love in friendship...

Because marriage is a discipline To be added to a list of achievements...

Because marriages do not fail, people fail When they enter into marriage Expecting another to make them whole...

Because, knowing this, I promise myself to take full responsibility For my spiritual, mental and physical wholeness I create me, I take half of the responsibility for my marriage Together we create our marriage...

Because with this understanding The possibilities are limitless.


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Saturday, February 27, 2010

Wedding Ceremony Readings.

Readings presented during a wedding ceremony reflect the values and expectations of the bride and groom.  Having them read by people other than the officiant offers others an opportunity to be included in the ceremony.  Friends and family members are usually excited and honored to participate (and provide a variety of voices heard).

Readings occur throughout the ceremony, and are usually limited to three or less.  The officiant should meet with the readers at the rehearsal or before the ceremony to review:

1.    How and when they (the reader) will be introduced
2.    Where to stand
3.    How to introduce their reading
4.    Read slower than they think necessary and
5.    Instructions on using the microphone


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Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Your Outdoor Wedding Ceremony.

Your Outdoor Wedding Hint.
Unless the Bridal Party will be wearing sneakers,  don't expect a fabric runner on grass to get anyone in heels down the aisle! Be creative with the Processional but remember, the Bride and Groom are the focus on this day.
"I try to make the day as stress-free , comfortable and relaxed as possible for my couples. I want them to have a memorable ceremony for all the RIGHT reasons!"
Jim Albani, Wedding Officiant

Couple reviews.

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Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Your Wedding Ceremony. Opening and Welcoming Statements.

Folllowing is an excerpt of a welcome/opening statement from Your Complete Wedding Ceremony E-book:

"A marriage brings two individuals into a unique relationship with each other - one which grows and develops as each continues to experience him or her and others.  Mature love is a union where each individual’s integrity is preserved.  Such love allows us to retain our identity as individuals.  In love the paradox occurs that two people become one and yet remain two..."

With these words spoken, the couple may turn to face their guests as the Officiant continues, " Look at everyone here, your witnesses, who love you and support you. In the future will come challenges and successes. Remember the love of this day."

When we are young, our love for another can be so overwhelming that we literally lose ourselves in the love. Our identity can merge with the emotion and we may seem unable to separate from the place of being together, to stand in love as our own person.

Mature love is different - not less passionate, more flexible!

Love at any age is wonderful. Love shared is your wedding day. Invite your guests within your ceremony to witness the love you have for one another and embrace the love they offer back to you.

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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Your Wedding Ceremony. Welcome and Opening Statements.

Folllowing is an excerpt of a welcome/opening statement from Your Complete Wedding Ceremony E-book:

A welcome and/or opening statement may be very brief or lengthy.  Ideally it is tailored to satisfy the desires of the bride and groom.  Some of the elements included are to:

1.    Thank and acknowledge the importance of all attending.
2.    Deliver any special message the bride and groom desire to share.
3.    Discuss role of witnessing and support the marriage vows;
4.    Acknowledge those present in spirit but not in form (deceased relatives, etc.)
5.    Outline or preview the marriage ceremony; 
6.    In some cases, offer stories featuring the bride and groom.

The welcome and opening statements are usually presented by your wedding officiant.

Dear friends, we are gathered here today to celebrate the drawing together of two lives.  We have come so that this man, [GROOM’S NAME], and this woman, [BRIDE’S NAME], may be united in marriage.  This commitment is not to be entered into lightly, but with certainty, mutual respect, a sense of honor, and eternality.
   
[GROOM’S NAME] and [BRIDE’S NAME], as you know, no minister, no priest, no rabbi, and no public official can marry you.  Only you can marry yourselves.  By a mutual commitment to love each other, to work towards creating an atmosphere of care, consideration, and respect, by a willingness to face the tensions and anxieties that underlie human life, you can make your wedded life come alive.

Your love for one another and your willingness to accept each other's strong points and weaknesses with understanding and respect will help cement the foundation for a strong and lasting marriage.  Learn to respect your individual outlooks.  Share your thoughts, experiences and dreams with each other.  Cherish the intimacy and understanding that comes with the passage of time.  As you enter this union
your belief that marriage is a partnership between equal individuals with common goals, hopes, and dreams will give your lives special meaning and fulfillment.

Today, there is a vast unknown future stretching out before you.  That future, with its hopes and disappointments, its joys and its sorrows, is hidden from your eyes.  But it is a great tribute to your faith in each other that you are willing to face these uncertainties together.  May the love with which you join hearts and hands today never fail, but grow deeper and surer with every year you spend together.

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Saturday, February 6, 2010

The Opening Presentation. Positions.

Before the ceremony begins, the Bride is positioned on the right and the Groom stands to the left of the Officiant. Traditionally the couple would stand with their backs to their guests and witnesses. More common now, they will face one another in profile to the Officiant and guests.


Jim Albani, Minnesota Wedding Officiant, tells me that this positioning allows everyone to see how the couple respond to one another and to hear more clearly all that is spoken.

The “I Do. Your Complete Wedding Ceremony eBook” is a great tool to help you design and organize your ceremony. This helpful guide was compiled by Jim Albani, Minnesota Wedding Officiant.

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