When the Bride and her escort have reached the first row of the seated audience, her escort will offer her to the arm of her Groom. Traditionally the words, “Who gives this woman to marry this man?” are spoken by the officiant at this time. Jim Albani, Minnesota Wedding Officiant, at the discretion of the Bridal couple more often now will ask, “Who gives this woman to marry this man? Who gives this man to marry this woman?”
The response to the traditional inquiry came from the Bride’s father or other male escort. You may hear the response now come from both parent’s and even from the guests as a whole group. “Who supports this couple in marriage?” The response with enthusiasm will be, “We do!”
There is an air of informality when all the guests respond but this does not detract from the solemnity of the ceremony. For the couple, there is an affirmation that all, family and friends, will support them in their marriage years.
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